the Resilience ToolBox Training

What makes it unique, and better.

Would you like to feel safe? Would you like to be free from shame? Would you like the confidence to get a job, or a better one? How would it feel to be “alive,” or to feel “real” as some clients have reported? Would you like to be empowered? Would you like to heal developmental trauma, PTSDs, or adult trauma? Learn how to successfully complete stress cycles so they are gone, rather than manage the symptoms? Have you spent thousands and feel like little has been accomplished? Would you like to heal trauma without having to talk about it, or even remember it? Do you want to be free of the past?

This isn’t a get healed quick scheme. If you’re looking for that, you’re in the wrong place. Healing may not be a life sentence, yet it doesn’t happen over night. Anyone promising that doesn’t know trauma, or healing. Trauma however, is very curable! It’d doesn’t develop that fast, and it certainly won’t go away that fast. When trauma and it’s symptoms do go away, they will go away for good.

The Resilience Toolbox training is an assessment based 12 month program that is for those willing to be responsible for their own healing from trauma (including secondary), and not to be just a survivor. This is about living full, living large, with wellness in the unity of the emotions, intellect, body, consciousness, social relationships, and your immediate environment. You can own you, and be free to feel all your feelings, think all your thoughts (I don’t believe all of mine), be free in relationships, be in love, not co-dependent, to have boundaries, to establish what you want to believe and knowing why you believe what you believe, and free to express yourself in the place you live in.

Why a 12 month long program? Three reasons: One is to develop habits, which will fuel future growth and discipline, a second is to develop co-regulation, the foundation of all relationships, and third, to be able to see and track actual changes. This isn’t a microwave opportunity. I didn’t heal in a year. In a year though my provider and I agree I had laid a solid enough foundation where I could work on my own. Being able to see your own growth over a year is quite exciting! A couple other solid benefits include experiencing healing in a caring and safe environment, which allows the body to attend to potential attachment and attunement problems that can develop from childhood neglect and/or abuse.

The 12 months program consists of 4 weekly live in person (local) or Zoom calls, that teaches the use of several tools that create safety in the neurology, without which there is no healing at all. There are tools to deal with anxiety, and tools to help remain grounded in the present moment. There are tools for leqarning to navigate emotions, improve decision making, and then into risk taking (Yiokes!) in social settings! There is practice of these tools, and a live connection with the trainer throughout, The program starts precisely where our issue starts - with the body. Not with talking about your trauma. The trauma process starts in the body, and creeps into the psyche. We start with the body, and allow the amazing self-healing human organism do it’s work, using the innate process built in specifically for this purpose. And yet, with a combination of body work, psychological exercises, and homework, one is able to displace and dissolve the negatives of trauma and replace them with the positives of a fully engaged life. And one will eventually be able to tell the stories, because that is the kind of species we are. When we own the stories, rather than them owning us, is when we can. Another unique aspect of the Toolbox program is that there is an after care community just for those who finish the program. Eventually that will include those who choose to go on and complete the Mentorship program, and this community will help with further skill building in developing relationships, answer questions, and will have live connection with Leckey on a periodic basis.

And all of this at a great investment. You will notice I didn’t say “cost.” For good reason. YOU are not a “cost.” You have worth, and value, just like an investment. An investment appreciates in value, a cost, like most vehicles, does not. Also, investments have return on investment.” (ROI) Healing your trauma can indeed have a literal ROI, as well as an intangible, and even more valuable ROI. For example, if by healing your trauma you became a better employee (more emotionally present, more cognitively aware, not as sick, more engaged with co-workers), it would only require $1.37 (at current investment levels) an hour to make your investment a break even proposition. What if by healing, you launched out on your own dreams? In my case, I have reaped more than the $1.37 just in the last year alone, because not only am I a better employee, I look out for myself, I have started two of my own side businesses and those are having a far greater ROI already. We are not a cost, you and I. We are an Investment.

The national average for talk therapy, which has little of the above, and can drag on for years (were you talked into your trauma?), is $85 a session. I’ve heard up to $165, and New York City is in the hundreds! I considered the talk therapy/insurance route when I investigated how to heal my trauma, and between co-pays, premiums, and annual deductible, I was looking at $4000 - $6000 per year, and then there was the hassle of finding a therapist that was qualified, and in network. Which lasts until the employer decided to change policies, and one had to start all over. I said no thanks to that, and decided I had to go the route of a method I would pay for out of pocket, and worked.

That being said, the one time payment is $2500 USD, or $217 USD per month. As of September 24, 2024, the price will increase to $327 USD a month, or $3800 USD in a single payment.

The Toolbox course

Anyone who knows me knows that I have long stood against courses. For good reason. I have yet to see one where those taking it have any real way to have questions answered, and, more importantly, no live connection, which is so important to healing childhood issues. However, I know that there will be those who cannot afford the premium Toolbox program. So I decided to create a hybrid to solve both issues I was facing. The course will vbe automated. It is the same program as the premium program. The same materials. The one key and major difference is that there will not be live weekly sessions. I will be checking in with all those in the course at set times of the month, to answer questions, and hopefully just get to know people, and encourage them, and hear their stories. It is people in the course and program that I want to hear from, and some may be featured in blog posts, podcast interviews, and have their testimonies put on the website. And if it turns out there are several from a certain area, why not a practice group and get together to develop those relationship? We are wired to connect. Eventually there will be a VP of Raise Your Resilience whose job it will be to maqke sure questions get answered in a timely fashion, and not by anyone. It will be by a trained Mentor of thew Mentor Program? What is that you ask? Keep reading..,.

Mentor Program

Agency Training

The are a lot of variables that go into such an experience, so a consultation will cover all those. Agency training consists of education about stress and trauma, training in learning to down regulate it, and build employee retention and better customer service. Other focuses can be on professional development (combatting burnout) and client service.

Agencies and organizations that can benefit from this training:
- dispatch organizations
- police departments
- firefighter/EMT/rescue/paramedic departments/districts
- ER staffs
- medical flight crews
- coroners
- medical trauma centers doctors and nursing staff)
- court systems (juries preparation)
- legal firms (lawyers)
- veteran service organizations

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